That moment when you sit down watching TV whilst she is sweeping the room, you lift your leg like a boss for her to sweep and mop the floor, as you munch popcorn. She goes on to do the dishes, do the laundry, clean the outside of the house, collect the things from the line and prepare food, she comes back to the sitting room to arrange the stuff you carelessly threw about…..You’re spying her behind, abusing her in your mind, mentally planning for how she will finish and come satisfy your urges. You feel like the Prince of Arabia. You’re thanking God for giving you such a hardworking, “marriageable”, humble lady for a fiancée.
Just know that at that very moment, she’s also thinking and asking God where such a lazy, selfish, unhelpful good for nothing guy came from. She’s battling in her mind whether to advice herself and leave your pompous ass. It’s just a matter of time before things turn on their head.
Perhaps we need to revise our notes on what we consider to be the desirable traits in an ideal partner, and most importantly, we gotta know that we play a role in the grand scheme of things, about the kind of partners we get. A people get the kind of government they deserve, a man gets the kind of woman he creates with his expectations and behaviors.
